Where ever you find yourself, the following links will be a good quick resource to look up as a starting point. Some things you will recognize as recent changes have been made in area hospitals! (Yea!!!) Some things you may still have not known was a possibility (and a very real necessity in order to achieve the birth you aspire).
Lamaze International's Best Practices in Maternity Care
Link HereThe 6 linked above are listed individually with an explanation for each.
CIMS - Coalition for Improving Maternity Services
Link to The Mother Friendly Childbirth Initiative and The Ten Steps of Mother-Friendly CareYou can also go to their "free documents and downloads" tab on the left and read this and more in a brochure format.
Childbirth Connection
Link to their Evidence-Based Maternity Care Resource DirectoryThe books that are recommended are listed permanently on the right side bar.
The Thinking Woman's Guide to a Better Birth by Henci Goer is a great book for a first start. I have it in my lending library ready to read!
And in my own short words....what does one need to achieve her best birth?
---education, support, labor beginning on its own, movement & positions, avoiding unnecessary interventions, giving birth in the position of your choice (avoiding the back), following your urge to push rather than directed pushing, and after birth...no separation of mother & baby.